This particular post applies mostly to people who are looking for a romantic soulmate. The paradox about finding a very compatible soulmate is that we need to be complete within ourselves and not need to look for someone else to complete us.
Now this certainly does not mean you lower your femininity or masculinity. In fact to keep a relationship interesting, one needs to maintain polarity.
However, to feel complete, so we do not seek “completeness” in another, we need to balance our own feminine and masculine energies within. Your Soul in it’s completeness is not male or female. It is complete. And so are you. It is your physical body that gives you the experience of being male or female.
Here is a meditation to help you baa