How to Meet Your Soulmate – Part 2 – Be Your Higher Self

Please read this BEFORE you do the meditation at the end of the article:

1. What is a “Higher Self”?

The Higher Self is your true Self. It is connected deeply to God/All That Is, and is an eternal, omnipotent, conscious, and intelligent being. It never incarnates as its whole self on earth. The one who you identify as “you”, is only a small projection of this Divine Self. This does not mean the “you” on earth is a lesser being. You are here to bring more experience, and learning to yourself, and to keep evolving as a soul. And as the earthly “you”, you forget who you truly are. Your Higher Self speaks to you through your Inner Voice, always guiding you, helping you. You truly are your Higher Self, but just for the while you are on earth, the part of you that is on earth is aware of itself only as the one on earth.

2. Why would it help to be one’s Higher Self in meeting a soulmate?

When we are focusing only on our earthly awareness, we might not be fully aware of what is right for us. We might think we know, but most often we don’t. When you are doing something as important as calling a soulmate to you — be it a romantic partner, your future child, your future friend, or your future colleague — make a list of the qualities you seek, and do so from a position of higher awareness. When you do this from the awareness of your Higher Self, you will be manifesting a soulmate who is truly right for you at this time, and not call one your ego thinks is right. When we are operating from the level of awareness of our Higher Self, our thoughts are beautiful, our emotions are bright, and our vibration is high. And in life, we attract to ourselves mostly people of the same vibration. So, it will be best that we operate from our highest awareness, and attract to ourselves the most compatible soulmate. This ensures a much happier relationship, greater spiritual growth, and happiness.

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How to Meet Your Soulmate – Part 1

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“How do I meet my soul mate?”

I am asked these questions very frequently. A soul mate by definition is a soul who can be any relation to you – friend, romantic partner, child, another family member, teacher, student, employer, employee, colleague, etc. We each have many soulmates, fulfilling many different roles and purposes. Each of us also has a soul closest to us called the “primary soulmate” or “twinflame”.

For this series, decide who do you want to call to yourself? A romantic partner? Inviting a soul to be your child? Looking for a friend you can trust? The right employer? Anyone else?

This is the first of a series of blog posts on this topic. So stay tuned. I will be writing down the process as the Divine guides me.

The first step is:

Be one with your Higher Self. 

Your Higher Self is your true self, and is beyond the earthly personality you are playing at this time. Your earthly personality is transient. Your Higher Self is eternal. Truly, you are your Higher Self. We all are our Higher Selves, but we forget when we don the physical body.

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I’ll be grateful for your thoughts on sadness

sadnessI would like your thoughts on something I am trying to understand better. Please read this blog post, and email me back your thoughts IF you feel comfortable sharing with me. I will truly be grateful to you. Your response will be kept confidential. And if you feel comfortable sharing here, then please do so in the comments section.

When I went through immense sadness for years, I knew deeply how I felt, why I felt, what I felt. Anti-depressants did not work for me, and I suffered for years, till I took matters in my own hands, and took steps that helped me out of that deep pit. I can truly say I am happy now. Those are the tips I published in my blog sometime back.

However, I know everyone goes through this differently. The symptoms, emotions, behavior patterns, the reasons (or lack of them)…they can all be very different for different people. And I wish to understand this very deep sadness that many people feel. I want to see this from your point of view, so I am able help others better.

I have come to realize that our successes, relationships, how life itself turns out depends a lot on — whether we are happy or not. So I want to help more people achieve this.

Please tell me:

1. Have you ever dealt with deep sadness for very long periods of time? Or are you still dealing with it?

2If you did, can you tell me what your thoughts were?

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Kundalini Reiki: An easy, powerful, effective healing system

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Above art by the talented Lois Kobb:

Here’s a video for you, highlighting the special points about Kundalini Reiki.

If you have looked at my “about me” page, you will know that I have trained in many healing systems. And I do love them all. I use them all. However, I use Kundalini Reiki the most because:

1. Each session is just 3-5 minutes long.

2. It is powerful…I feel like my hands are dipped in flames when I do this.

3. It helps in a safe Kundalini rising.

4. Improves psychic senses a lot.

5. Really easy to do.

6. Many other really useful things you can do with its specific healing techniques – like attuning any object to be a Reiki channel, heal karmic bonds, clear energy, a specific technique to heal DNA and much more. Yes, these things can be done with other healing systems that I know too. But I find it much easier and faster to do it with Kundalini Reiki.

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Re-program your mind to Happiness

 (long post, but read through…these are some of the things I did to help myself and got to where I am now)


(Happiness Affirmations video, audio, and subliminal recording information below)

Re-program your mind to Happiness

Read through and follow the program for 40 days to reprogram yourself to happiness.


Why do we want anything? Why do we want to do anything? To me, it all boils down to — We simply want to feel happy.

We try to be successful, achieve a lot of things…all very nice. And yet, we often find ourselves stymied in achieving success. The law of attraction says that we will attract to ourselves events, people, and things that match our vibration. I do believe in this. Not because the books say so. Not because all gurus say so. But because that is what I have experienced. Ever noticed that when you start your day off well, you end up having a really pleasant day? And when you start off on a wrong note, the rest of the day goes down the gutter very quickly. Or even in the middle of the day…you find yourself upset, and the rest of the events that follow reflect your moods.

So, why not begin our days happily? Why not decide to be happy, no matter what? Do little things that make you happy…and maintain your happiness. You will see that when you make a commitment to being happy no matter what, soon you will see your external world reflecting what you feel inside. In other words, when you are happy, you will be happier.

Here are some tips on being happy:

1. DECIDE that you are happy. I know, I know, you might not feel that even makes sense…and sounds like a cliche. Yet, believe it or not, it works! Keep telling yourself, “I AM happy!”. And your brain will soon obey. I start repeating this to myself with emotion anytime I start to feel low, and my moods shift. You don’t need to say it out aloud. Repeating in your mind is good enough.

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